By Linda Ohlsen, Recreation Director
Bruce Schneider helped us welcome a new month with a terrific one hour program featuring the songs of Dean Martin, Frank Sinatra and Johnny Cash. Bruce’s three man band had Lenny Markowitz and Gilda Messina singing their hearts out while Mary Huben and Bobbie Smith danced together to some old favorites.
March was National Women’s Month and we used this as an opportunity to discuss the changing role of women throughout the decades during one of our morning programs. Josephine Caputo noted that she had seen lots of changes over the years and felt women had come a long way in many fields. A video on women in history was also viewed and discussed during the month. We were pleased to see the film pay tribute to our favorites, Eleanor Roosevelt, Hellen Keller and Jackie Kennedy.
Of course our major focus for the month was on St. Patrick’s Day. We were thinking Irish as we all helped Marie Thompson and Joe D’Angelo decorate our mantel with what looked like a pitcher and glasses filled with beer. Irish pub signs were also on view in our recreation room and welcomed all to such non-Irish spots as, Ignelzi’s, Hoffman’s and Manganiello’s Pub. 
Our four leaf clover wreathes, done by Paolina Bevacqua and Alfred Merrett, were easy to make and fun too as we added special gold coins left for us by the leprechaun. Several guests, including Alfred, told about finding real four leaf clovers, some right in their own backyard. All our four leaf clovers brought lots of luck to Alex Salmin, who was our March raffle winner. Alex won a genuine Irish Bear who was sporting his own four leaf clover, of course.
Two sing-alongs during the month were most enjoyable. Bob’s piano favorites were a hit with Muriel Lizak and had Virginia Kara singing along nicely to “Never on Sunday”. Dito Butigieg and John Kittell were appreciative of our talented guitar player, George Missali. John sang along to many tunes as did Juliette Gerlach. Of course all voices were heard singing “When Irish Eyes are Smiling”.
Saint Patrick’s Day celebrations were not to be topped. Green carnations were given to all as they entered the dining hall for the traditional Irish feast of corned beef and cabbage, boiled potatoes and Irish soda bread. Nice comments from Adelaide McKasty and Irene Huether on the meal kept our Irish eyes smiling. Lee Kulakowski had some nice words too for the fantastic show done by Tony Grant which followed the meal. Tony’s mix of Irish music, history and humor made our hour with him a very enjoyable one. Mary Billott sang along to most of the songs and Noreen Doohan impressed us all with her fine Irish Jig.
A less obvious date during March marked the 100th anniversary of the Oreo Cookie. We were happy to throw our own party for them as we sampled both the traditional Oreo and some of the newer varieties. All were just great and we’re sure they’ll be around for another 100 years. Toll House Cookies have been around for quite some time too and using an “original recipe” we came across, we were able to prepare and bake some of our own. Thanks to the skills of Muriel Lizak and Ruth Beal, our cookies tasted even better than the originals.
We greeted the first day of spring with some lively table games that had us vying for such seasonal prizes as floral scented room fresheners and soaps. Juliette Gerlach and Josephine Caputo won a few of these, while Bob Hall won a cute plush chick. Bob, who raised canaries years back, was pleased with his chick and also the very informative video on birds that was shown later in the day.
Strong competition and high scores kept our monthly bingo winner a mystery right to the last games played. The final score found Marie Thompson, Lee Kulakowski and Gilda Messina all with 54 wins and Bob Hall, our champ, with a total of 56. Congratulations Bob!
Freddie Prinz ended our month on a high note. His visit on the 30th provided us with a great opportunity to sing and dance and have a fantastic time. Freddie’s keyboard artistry was at a peak as he played all our old favorites. John Kittell, Bobbie Smith and Mary Huben were great dancing to his more lively numbers and received lots of applause from the appreciative crowd.
April will bring us a chance to have yet more fun as we color our eggs and vie for prizes at our annual Easter Egg Roll. Our staff/resident bowling tournament will take place late in the month and will pair our top six resident bowlers with members of our staff. Bowling averages will be tallied earlier in the month and the participants announced the week of the event. Looking good so far are John Kittell, who has bowled a 174, Alfred Merrett, with a high of 169 and Bobbie Smith, with a 164. With lots of crafts, games and entertainment too, April should be a fun filled month for us all!









word games program and noted with interest that he was much larger than we thought (22 inches and 18 pounds). We also learned that, concerning seasonal change, his accuracy is a mere 40%. Nonetheless, we were pleased when our local groundhog, Holbrook Hal, gave his promise of an early spring.





Thompson did well at the games but it was Bob Hall who surprised us all that day with a record win of 11 rounds. Congratulations Bob, and to Alex Salmin, too, whose consistent wins throughout the month made him our bingo winner for February.








George Thogersen’s tree was beautifully done and Madeline Pedota’s, a true work of art. Victorian inspired wreaths were a focal point for our recreation room. They all looked lovely, but those done by Kitty Keegan and Marie Thompson were especially attractive. Our gingerbread boys and girls were fun to decorate with lots of faux icing and candy buttons. Tess Brana and Frank Hartman selected their “cookies” from our baking sheet and went right to work turning them into great decoration for our holiday hallway.
Ruth Faustich and Joe D’Angelo were quick to solve and assemble our Christmas tree puzzle. Using the three cut-outs provided, they made cute trees that were then embellished with shiny silver and gold stars. Their much admired decorations looked great outside our dining hall entrance.
Bobbie Smith was a big help in decorating our tree, as were Alfred Merret, Josephine Caputo and George Thogersen, who got all the high branches for us. Once our tree was decorated to our liking, we turned off the lights and, as we admired it, were led insinging “Jingle Bells” by Muriel Lizak. With our home made ready to entertain, we were anxious to sit back and await the many visitors who were scheduled to join us during the month. Pastor Bonfiglio gave us a lovely Christmas service which featured the singing of traditional Christmas carols we could all recall.
Lou Paioli, who, we all agree, sounds like Perry Como, transported us back to the 1940’s and 50’s with his great show featuring a mix of old standards and holiday tunes.
Lee Kulakowski and Gilda Messina seemed to know every song played and sang along to them all. Two very talented performers from Blue Heron Entertainment helped make our holiday more memorable. They lit up our dining room with a light display and then entertained us with some fabulous music on keyboard and saxophone. Vocalist, Myra Shutt, was just fantastic and Charlotte Katen and Mary Billott were more than appreciative of her talents.
Our dining hall looked lovely too, with its red tablecloths, Poinsettias and decorative baskets donated by Juliette Gerlach’s daughter Lynne’s garden club. Santa was warmly welcomed to our party and we were so pleased with all the presents he brought- one for every resident.
Their fun show had us all smiling as we enjoyed their unique sound. Accompanied by some youthful singers from Mount Carmel Church, we relished each of their selections and begged for them to repeat a few so we could enjoy them again. The voices of the youth choir from the United Methodist Church of Patchogue were appreciated by Josephine Caputo and Pauline Bovino. Their visit was also deeply appreciated by Hazel Nargi and Rachel Nason who are members of their church.









certain cultures too and enjoyed hearing about some German meals that Inga Schulz prepared and the Italian dishes served by Josephine Caputo and Julia Manganiello. Of interest too was a video of the old ethnic neighborhoods which was viewed by Gilda Messina and Muriel Lizak.




Thogersen came close with 13. Prizes went to Tess Brana and Alfred Merrett for getting their rings tossed onto the neck of the bottle of vampire venom, a not so easy task. We all enjoyed the “poison apples” and “witch fingers” (cocktail franks) that were served and were pleased to receive trick or treat bags filled with goodies too. As the sound of thunder rolled in, we headed off to lunch and to celebrate Muriel Lizak’s Halloween birthday.










high too this month, especially for Gilda Messina, Nick Mazzillo and Lee Kulakowski. Virginia Kara had the luckiest card of all though and won the most games for the month. Congratulations Virginia!

















During our word games and reminiscing program, we shared parenting advice and also memories of our own moms. Robert Hall related that his mother was not a very good cook, while Tess Brana noted that her mother’s meals were outstanding. We counted the number of children we had and compared them to the offspring of our parents only to be amazed at the decline in family size after just one generation. It also got us wondering how our mothers were able to accomplish all they did with so many children to raise.




